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The erotic act of spanking predates the Fifty Shades phenomenon by centuries. One need not look any further than Ancient Rome circa BC. The famous Tomb of the Floggings features frescoes depicting a naked woman bent over, while two men spank her from behind.
From Ancient Egypt, to tribal drawings, to the Kama Sutra, to Victorian era erotica, the sadomasochistic act has been explored and represented, fascinating men and women alike. Post continues…. It was determined that 95 per cent of all participants enjoyed being spanked, and ranked the practice third out of sexual behaviours.
So, why is the act being slapped on the butt by a hand or foreign object, a source of pleasure for so many women?
Biologically, she says spanking can release epinephrine and norepinephrine - both of which are pain chemicals, but can elicit a pleasurable 'rush'. Strgar says that when it comes to sex, pleasure and pain may be "one in the same" using examples of the runner's high and the complex "facial expressions during orgasmic release" - which, without context, could be mistake for pain.
Strgar also argues that the themes of sexual dominance and submission run deep within human sexuality, and have underpinned sexual rituals since the beginning of time. Rebecca Plante has an additional theory about why men and women enjoy erotic spanking. Simply, it feels good. Dr Gloria Brame agrees, "I think it has more to do with the delightful sting and the delightful warmth and the delightful vibrations that it sends through the whole region," she says. The part of the body where most people enjoy being smacked is a tender zone that stimulates blood flow and physiologically arouses the neighbouring genitals.
It makes sense that the person being spanked would find it arousing. Of course, not everyone enjoys this practice, nor should they feel compelled to. As Plante says, "The bottom line with our sexualities is that we should be getting comfortable with them and with them changing throughout our lives, but that we should never be feeling coerced or compelled for what we're doing or not.
So, if spanking is something you want to experiment with, it's important to discuss it with your partner, and make sure you're on the same when it comes to intensity and location. As with any form of sexual exploration, communication and honesty is key.
I have tried this on my wife but it doesn't work for her. Not one bit, but it does work for me when she does it for the same reasons as mentioned in the article and also because she is my wife and is female. It is nothing to do with femdom or punishment and all that rubbish.
It doesn't do anything for my wife.
I've tried it many times but actually it does an awful lot for me for the same reasons as in the article. She has said without prompting that she is comfortable with it. This is nothing to do with femdom, punishment and all that rubbish. Leave a comment. Jessie Stephens. Editor, News and Features.
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